okay so basically my boyfriend likes to slap my butt and i feel as if sometimes he doesn’t realize his own strength. but anyways, we were hanging out earlier today and i went to go to the bathroom when i got home, and realized it kinda hurt to sit on the toilet. i looked at my butt and saw these purple/blue/ red dots are all over my cheeks. anybody know what it is and how to get rid of it/make it not hurt as bad? also should i ask him to be more gentle? i dont mind when he slaps me hard bc im into it, but if the dots have significance and can lead to like actually hurting me then i want to ask him to be more careful. pls help because im lowkey stressing about ts😭