I genuinely don’t know what I did wrong. He told me he is very hypersexual. We put in a safe word that either of us could use in case there was ever a time we got uncomfortable or wasn’t feeling it. I used it a few times. At first he was the main one initiating the sexual things, then he slowed and I kept it going I guess. I always made sure to ask if he was okay, if I needed to stop, or anything. He always said he was okay with everything. Then I had feeling that I was unintentionally pressuring him into the sex. So I talked to him and he had this big conversation with me. He said he was more than okay with everything. He said he really enjoyed how I was so comfortable around him and how I want to be intimate with him and that I was just getting in my head. This happened a few times, each time I still slowly stopped initiating until we were barely doing anything besides jokes and flirting. A few days before the breakup he mentioned thigh highs and how I would look good in them, so I put on this “sexy” outfit and showed him. Then he broke up with me. He said I am “exhausting” and putting a toll on him and his mental health. He told me he didn’t like all the sex in our relationship, that there was too much. I genuinely don’t know what I did wrong. I love this man so much. I can’t loose him.