When you first start dating, things aren’t always crystal clear. Sometimes you don’t know exactly when “exclusive” really starts or what counts as crossing a line.

For those of you who are married now — did you ever go through that? Like still having apps on your phone, swiping a bit, or small chats that never turned into anything serious.

Did it cause guilt or worry at the time, and how did you move past it? I’m wondering how common these early gray areas are for couples who ended up happy and committed long term.


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