Me and her have been dating for just over 3 months now and I cant help but feel worries about it all the time. Ever since the start of the relationship I’ve been worried that I wouldn’t be enough and I try to give her everything I can to fix that feeling. The last 2 weeks have been really rough on the both of us, she had a difficult therapy session and ever since then she has been responding very short and sometimes straight up ignoring my messages while I see her reposting stuff in tiktok. I get that she needs space and I really want to respect that but I can’t help but think she’s mad at me or that I did something wrong all the time. I really wanna bring it up but I don’t want to make myself look like the victim because I know she has it so hard. We are planning on meeting tomorrow and she said she was broke, I said that I have enough money from my job and she said she didn’t want me to spend it on her. I just don’t know what to do, I love her so much but how do I communicate that I’m worries without making myself look like I’m the victim.
TL;DR: my girlfriend has been acting less loving since 2 weeks and I wanna talk about it without seeming like the victim