My friend has been married a couple of years and recently he opened up about being strongly attracted to femdom (especially the humiliation side). He says this interest started in his teens and has always been there in some form.
The issue is, he feels guilty that he enjoys sex less without it, and it sometimes makes him restless or distracted. His partner knows about it but isn’t into femdom, which is creating tension. He has tried therapy and it helped him control his urges for a while but the desire keeps coming back.
He’s worried about how to handle these urges without harming his relationship. Has anyone here faced something similar or found healthy ways to manage when your partner doesn’t share the same sexual preference?