I used to be super awkward and naive untill this year, i’ve worked so hard to grow out of it so here are some lessons I’ve learned along the way:
1- I used to take judgment seriously until I realized people who judge you are usually projecting their own unhappiness. Remember happy people are too busy living their lives, not judging others.
2- confidence takes time and practice: The more you do it the more natural confidence becomes. confidence is attractive and inspiring
3- not everything is a life or death situation. Learn to chill and stop taking everything so seriously. The less you take things seriously the more you have fun.
4- social skills are practice not a talent. The more you socialize with people the more you get better at it.
5- people can be selfish and its why learning to put yourself first is important. Protect your energy and put yourself first.
6- its 100% okay to walk away: Some people wont respect you or your boundaries and thats their problem not yours.
7- learn how to detach from people who dont help you grow. It’s going to save you from a lot of heartbreak. Some people are not worth crying or being sad over.
8- final and favourite tip: maybe youre not healing because youre in the same place that made you sick.
Thats all. I hope those tips were helpful. Thank you for taking the time to read all that bye