I (20M) and my gf (18F) had sex for few times. We are dating for a year and we waited for the right time. Since we both moved out recently, we had sex in my room
We had sex for 5 times and we have issues
Everytime we have sex , even though I'm not forcing anything , I'm very gentle and I make sure she's completely aroused also we use sufficient lube, it hurts her.
First time it hurt , we thought it was because of the hymen breakage, I felt it breaking, it was like a wall of soft a Little stretchy membrane. She didn't bleed but it was painfull for her. I was thinking that after her hymen breaks we'll stop but she was so turned on that we continued sex that day.
Second time we had sex when she asked for it, I was again being so gentle , not increasing speed or force until she asks for it. But still it happened again.
And same things repeated again and again.
When I asked her why is it hurting that much , she started crying ( she is emotional ) and said that something is wrong with her body, and I did nothing wrong.
So basically, when we're starting sex , i confirm that she's completely aroused, and she's wet. But when I insert it, it hurts her at the opening of her pussy ( outer lips ), but it goes away after 2 or 3 strokes ( I guess it's normal ) and she's likes it deep inside ( i can't insert my whole dick, if I insert around 80% of my dick, she loves it ), we start slow , i try to arouse her , as she asks i increase the speed and power ( only enough to satisfy her , I don't force anything ) and she loves it, I can see on a face that she's enjoying it very much. But suddenly she can't feel anything, it starts to pain and she's not horny anymore. Seconds before she was loving it and now I'm not giving her pleasure instead I'm hurting her, is it because of prolonged stimulation or idk if she had an orgasm or it was just my fault.
Even if it's my fault or it's her's. How do I fix this. Ik communication is the key, but even she's doesn't know what is happening to her body.
We both are too young, some serious advice will help us a lot.
Thanks for reading