I started dating him this year, weve been dating two months..
a little context im very active and eat really healthy. my bf is about 30 lbs overweight not much. he also doesnt work out very often
when we met he mentioned he was prediabetic but didnt elaborate much on how that affects him or if he was working on it..
now to the hard part, when we have sex he starts to go soft.. i usually dont make a comment on it and just use my hands which works to get him off. I feel like I have to do all the work or he seems to tire out super fast, sweats profusely. idk if its his physical condition, death grip or am i just loose? ive never had kids but I do have IBS that can sometimes affect pelvic muscles I never had this issue with my ex but he was a lot bigger down there and in very good shape. I genuinely care about my bf and i dont know how to navigate it in a way that wont affect his confidence
how do i find out if its me? do “loose” vaginas make men go soft?! it doesnt help that i get overly wet
Tldr: I think my bf has erectile dysfunction & i dont know how to discuss it