So here’s what happened:
I matched with a girl on Bumble a while ago. We planned a date, but she canceled last minute.
Not long after, I was at a festival with friends and a random girl joined our group. Turns out she was the sister of the Bumble match. The chances of that happening felt insanely slim, like it was “meant to happen” in some weird way. She was super enthusiastic, even joked about me being her “future brother-in-law,” and said she could set me up with her sister.
So I decided to text the Bumble girl again. She barely responded, ignored my next message, then later came back with vague, flirty replies (like winky faces). It’s not real interest, just playful nothingness.
Here’s the thing: this kind of stuff happens to me way too often. Random, surreal situations that seem almost “meant to be,” but then turn into nothing.
Has anyone else experienced this? Do you understand why stuff like this happens to you? I honestly don’t want this kind of thing — I want to attract people who genuinely want to be with me — but it feels like I keep pulling in the opposite