I remember when I was 14 years old, there was a kid at my school who I knew lived close to me that flirted with me and made eyes at me for weeks, and one day I said "hey there is a racquetball court near our house, want to go after school?" and he said "I don't know…" and never talked to me again. I asked my dad about it and he said "he probably got scared". that was the first time I had ever heard that term and it set the stage for the rest of my life. after that I noticed many instances where guys get "scared" by my affection.
meeting guys who I click well with, things are going well, our connection is good and our physical connection is phenomenal, and then out of nowhere they just leave? for no reason? My only assumption is that they are just "scared"??
why are so many guys "scared"? what scares you about a beautiful connection?