I had 1 lump on my neck I noticed a few weeks ago, due to an overwhelming amount of cancer history in my family, went ahead to check it out via Dr ordered ultrasound. Come to hear there isn’t just 1 but 6 apparent growths in my neck/throat region. I’m 27. Cancer is like the black stain in my family health history. Ovarian, breast, bone, skin, shit i don’t even know if I got them all. And not out of reach. My grandmother and her sister have cancer and are still presently alive. I called my husband after getting the results via my medical records app. 4 of the 6 lumps are abnormal and need a follow up ultrasound guided fine needle biopsy to further diagnose. 4! I thought maybe worst case scenario ok I’ve got 1 mass to worry about being cancerous. Now that suddenly magnifies by 400%! Awesome. I called my husband of course and was really just in absolute shock. I had to stay at my folks a few towns south of where we live closer to the office the ultrasound was at. Since getting the news and getting home he hasn’t given me a hug, hasn’t given me a kiss, hardly said much to me, and has had the energy to follow his exes Facebook friend (female) and more models on IG. He only said hi (in an irritated “ok fine then” tone) when I said I was going to bed and he was asking what was up I told him like you haven’t said hardly anything to me or even approached me to give me a hug or kiss since I got home. It had been hours at that point.
Partners in his shoes; what the hell could possibly be going through his head that makes him think it’s cool to just not show affection rn? Even worse place attention elsewhere? Should I be worried he’s ignoring and denying and not taking this seriously and considering me? Like I feel like a yo-yo.