I just started dating a guy. We are both in our mid-40’s. We’ve had sex three times now, and every time he hasn’t cum. It really bothers me because I want to make sure he feels good. He assures me that he does, but he’s never had this problem before and he’s not sure why this is happening. He told me it’s been about a year, maybe a little less, since he’s had sex. He’s a little out of shape. Could this be why? Would appreciate any light shed. Thanks.