I just started seeing someone who I think is amazing, so kind, funny, loving, fun to hang out with and similar outlook on life. We're both super attracted to each other and the sexual tension between us that's been building up has been so hot, we talked about what we both like / don't like and he's a great kisser…but then we actually had sex for the first time and it was…just not good. I liked parts of it and I wouldn't say it was terrible but neither of us finished and it was just overall a bit disappointing especially after how much excitement and build up there was to it. This has never happened to me before with someone I really like and now I'm scared, I'm a really sexual person and I can't be with someone who I can't have good sex with…but I want this to work out because he's such a wonderful human and I like everything else about him. Has this happened to anyone else before? Did the sex get better? It's only been 1 time so I hope maybe it was just an off day for both of us