I’ve been taking this girl for about six months.
In the beginning, it was exciting, there was a lot of optimism for a potential future relationship, and we both kind of agreed to see where it goes. I noticed around month 4, there was a lot of energy that was lacking. We haven’t been intimate anymore and at this point it kinda just seems like we both just hang out whenever we see each other.
I felt that I always kinda took more initiative in developing this into something more serious, but I sensed some hesitation from her. She seems to be very complacent with her current lifestyle and prioritizes her friends and events rather than developing our current relationship even know though she’s told me I’m important to her.
Given all this, I wonder if it’s worth it to continue or even continue dating in general.
I’m in my 30s now, and I feel like seeking a partner is just so exhausting. The past few years I’ve tried dating and I’ve noticed that things just fizzle and I just end up in the same spot, alone doing my own thing.
Has anyone else gone through a similar mindset?