Im a fairly healthy 19 year old guy, but I just can’t seem to cum 99% of the time. I’ve had 9-10 partners in my time under the sun but the only one who could actually make me cum was my ex girlfriend from a while ago, and that was maybe twice. It’s not a boner issue, I get those fine, and it honestly tends to work to my advantage because I can usually go an hour or two before I cum even a little. As anyone would, I get tired of not getting much out of it myself. This isn’t a recent thing, it’s been like this ever since I lost my virginity, but as life goes on I want to be able to take more pleasure in sex.
ps. I don’t know if this is related but I usually can’t cum unless my legs are tensed, even when jerking off. Also sorry if this is too tmi.