Married 10 years, 2 kids. Check profile for earlier post for abit or back story
About a year ago my wife got really into fitness. With the kids in school full time, she finally had some time to focus on herself. She got jnto amazing shaped and completely overhauled her personal appearance. All new athleisure wear, self tanner, went blonde. Started making sure hair and make up done before leaving the house. She started to get alot of attention, which she would tell me about. I could tell her confidence was growing a lot and she was happier. Our sex life also improved.
Originally for an awhile I’ve been pretty insecure or jealous about hearing about men flirting with her or checking her out right infront of me. But she was happy and I trusted her so I just chalked it up to my own insecurities. She’s been wanting to go to the gym with me for awhile, so today we finally went in the afternoon (peak time for a Sunday). We both worked out seperately, but obviously I kept an eye on her a lot of the time. Needless to say a few of the regulars there she knows would come to up and chat with her between sets. Caught a few other guys staring (gym has mirrors wall to wall). I actually found it kind of exciting… almost exhilarating knowing all these guys were flirting or checking out my wife. I had no idea. The insecurity went away completely.
After we got home we had some hot sex, and afterwards I told her how hot it was seeing all these guys flirting or checking her out. She was a little shy about it but I assured her I know what I saw. I’ve never even considered this a thing before, and honestly not even quite sure where to go from here
Tl;dr wife got into great shape and along with it came a lot of new attention. Insecure at first but now like it