My girlfriend (25f) seems like she likes fingering more than sex. I have no issue with that, whatever pleases her the most I will do. However, I can’t help but feel a little self conscious about that. Is it normal for women to prefer fingering over sex?
I will say, she has never told me she prefers fingering. Yet when we start to get intimate and I start fingering her, I’ll often finger her for a few minutes and then she’ll tell me she’s finished. Then that’s that, no sex or anything. I also can’t lie and say it doesn’t suck a little to consistently ONLY please her, and then just leave me there with no orgasm.
I should also add, I’m fairly new to sex as a whole. I’ve had some experience with a girlfriend a while ago, but safe to say I’ve forgotten everything (aside from how to finger apparently)