I(28f) didnt really know how to title the post, but trying to think of one I also realized that much. Rarely did we go on dates, opposing schedules from the start didnt help. Now we're 2 kids and 6 years in and I dont know what to do or how to feel. Did start counseling for myself though.
Orignal reason I got on reddit to begin with, was to talk about feeling a lil mehh about having to play it takes two with my 4 almost 5 year old instead of my boy friend. Even though he had said we could give it a try as a bonding thing because I don't even know what "our thing" is or if we even have one
TL;DR – Playing a game heavily marketed towards couples, with my kid instead of my partner has got me thinking heavy on our relationship