I (F) have had multiple sexual partners and realised i’ve always felt this way, so I doubt this is a compatibility thing, but i’ve realised I don’t actually enjoy receiving other than actual penetrative sex. I certainly feel pleasure when receiving, and it’s not that my bf is bad at things like oral or fingering by any means, but i’ve realised when I am the one giving entirely during foreplay or just during any sexual act I enjoy it far far more… even with actual penetrative sex (which I enjoy immensely) I prefer it to be very short. The psychological pleasure I feel from the other person getting pleasure is so so much better than anything physical and I feel receiving kind of ruins the mood for me? I’m not insecure or anything, i’m perfectly content with my body etc, but i’m kind of confused as to why I feel this way? Is this normal? Also how do I talk to my boyfriend about this without him feeling like he’s bad at giving?