My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now and I could probably count on one hand how many times he has given me head.
I have constantly told him I do like getting head too, but I am also not a person to constantly ask if it is never getting done for me. I have asked multiple times in the past 3ish months and have only gotten it once but that’s only because we did 69 and he got something out of it too. Anytime we have sex he doesn’t ask, he just EXPECTS that I give him head before we start… but has never gave me head before sex even after I do it for him. I have constantly made comments about wanting him to do it for me recently and even told him myself I don’t want to give him head if he can’t/just won’t do it for me.
Can someone please tell me if my feelings are not valid? He claims it’s “more work” to give a female head and imo that is complete bs, lol. Is this just normal? As someone who enjoys pleasuring my man it’s not really fair to me. I love to give head to my man but I don’t feel like it’s fair for me to settle either. Please give me advice…
TI;dr my man does not give me head but expects it almost everyday & every time we have sex.