I am almost to a breaking point in my marriage. Being a single married mom has been one thing but my husband not respecting my boundaries in the home with Mother in law is another. She’s a very her way is right kinda person! She comes in my home walks through upstairs and bedrooms I was raised very conservative with no foot traffic in bedrooms as that is your space where you rest. I brought this up to him in addition to his ability to disappear whenever she comes over however instead of understanding he became super offensive you would think it help being our 7 year anniversary? Why did I bring it up because today on our 7 days anniversary she decided to come over but but what turned into a cook out is now turning into an overnight stay. She sees the tension growing between he and I and instead of leave she ask me is her son ok? Is he ok?????? I almost threw her out my house. Any advice would be greatly appreciated
as I sometimes act first without thinking and this can go very bad very quickly should she keep pushing me TL;DR