Like the title says, I was just stood up. It’s my first time being stood up and it feels like shit. This after everyone else ghosted or turned me down. I’m sure there’s people here who have been done like this multiple times and I’m sure they’ll tell me to get back in the saddle, but that’s not happening. I have a limit to how much shit I can take.
So that’s the final nail in the coffin for my dating life, I’m done. Deleted the apps. I’m going to be flying solo.
Now at a pub drinking myself into a stupor to dull the pain.
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Don’t give up! I’ve been there although I was very young.
It will happen if it’s meant to be. Live your life. Love may or may not find you, but make sure you find it in your heart to love and celebrate your soul and yourself!
How old are you?
Yeah no. I’ve been too and there’s something in the water because it’s really rare to find anyone that means anything they say anymore. I gave it three good tries and I’m done relationship wise. I just couldn’t deal with being tolerated not loved.
Get off those god damn apps. They are cancer.
Wtf has happened over the last few years to turn people into such rude walking egos? In the last month I have been told there is a connection with me about 10 times. Overused word to flatter. I had the good morning beautiful for a week. Offering to help in whatever you may be chatting about. Emojis, Voice notes, good nights. Then puff paf poof, ignore, knowing they could be upsetting you. Why show so much over inthusiam, talk about where future dates will be blah. Then they are done. It’s weak and hurtful to mess with people, then dispose and ignore. Everyone is talking about it. All men want and sorry to say 90% of messages is pics and to help them relax. Even if you state no ons no hook ups. Just have some human respect and say This isn’t going anywhere or I’m concentrating on work or whatever. Instead of cold ignoring then popping back up sorry and do again. Narcissism and cowardly. Not turning up at all , it’s vile.
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Are you actually mentally done or will you be back on the apps at some point? I had been burned kinda bad enough times to be done, ranging from stood up (alot), given a fake name and photo (techniclly stood up but they did arrive to then leave, as i didnt know how they looked, they think i had no idea, however only 1 person arrived then left in the given time) to being given a fake address to pic them up. Apps now are bad enough to really not bother, they are just out to get money with all the fake messages.
Getting stood up is one of the worst things to happen to anybody