I am F29 and my husband is M31, we just had a baby, she is 45 days old, my story is very complicated and I really need help , when we got married I promised my husband that I don't want kids and I want to try something different like threesome and open relationship and so on. When we got married I couldn't accept it anymore , everytime I was imagining him doing it with someone I would go crazy , then I started nagging about having a baby , he was convinced to do it because I wanted it, then when I got pregnant, 3 months pregnant he asked me if I really love him to abort the baby but I couldn't, and I continued my pregnancy, during pregnancy he was super sweet and good with me, after I gave birth everything changed, he started to tell me that he sacrificed alot for me and he didn't want marriage or babies but he did them for me and I didn't do anything for him, and he said that he doesn't feel like touching me or doing anything with me , he even suggested divorce and separation , he said he want to hurt me or make me sacrifice something I love the most like the baby to give her to my mother to raise her , anyway it was a big story and I really love him and I don't know what kind of sacrifice I can do to proof for him that I love him ,or how can I solve the situation? I don't want to divorce him or leave him ,I really love him and I told him that i insisted on having the baby because I wanted to be more connected to him but he is not convinced. Any help or opinion about my situation? I'm really destroyed and I have been crying every day since we had that talk … I adore him and I don't want to lose him. note , he loves the baby. He doesn't have any problem with her .