I see constant complaining about “people that don’t know what they want”, and this baffles me… Don’t you understand that it’s not about knowing “what” you want, but rather knowing WHO you want?
Knowing what you want is easy! Of course we want to be with someone, but it must be the right match.
Honestly, i believe that the majority of people don’t put enough effort into finding a very good match, cause it’s very difficult and requires a lot of self growth, most people just make do with what they find in their surroundings.
This is just my own interpretation of things, maybe it’s rare, what’s your thoughts on this?
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I think that people do know what they want but refuse to admit it and hide behind “not knowing” or “being confused”. These dudes who say they “just want casual” want a human fleshlight and emotional intimacy without any expectation of reciprocating. But instead of saying that they take girls out for a month, get what they want and when they know they’re going to have shit or get off the pot suddenly they don’t know what they want.
I think there are a lot of people who say others don’t know what they want as a way to make rejection sting a little less.