We’ve been married for over 10 years, and we’re both the same level: 39. I’m at a loss for how to get my wife to understand this: she is by far the worst sex partner I’ve ever had. My previous experiences before and during the marriage (most of which she knows about) were with partners who were engaged, active, and interested. My wife, on the other hand, has the attitude of a sex doll or a log.
I’ve tried to communicate, both directly and indirectly, but nothing works. She just lies there, and sometimes she’s so lazy she won’t even lift and spread her legs.
I’m tired of having to find other partners on the side (she knows about it). I love my wife, and I just want to have sex with one person—the one I married.