My husband is 49 over past few years he has started to make unusual comments such as constantly referring to women as sluts, or young girls as tenderonis. Even in conversations about anything he will say to me "oh you liked that slut" or "be a good wife" One day our neighbor didn't turn to wave hi when he drove by well he got so mad he was ranting when he got home saying how would our neighbor liked it if he fucked his wife. Bet he would notice then. Told him sometimes his behaviors and comments are getting strange to which he said every man thinks like that they just don't say it. He questioned who am I to judge him for is comments just because I don't agree with them.
While watching shows like dateline he has even joked during rape story saying oh slut got banged hard or really wanted it. The other night we were watching drama on Netflix about two families…he says oh they should have created storyline about the 14 year boy sleeping with the older au pair woman. And kept insisting the boy in the show had sexual feelings for his au pair when in reality the storyline was about the boy not feeling connected to his mother so he would turn to the au pair for help or safety.
Setting aside the odd comments he doesn't want sex often just says he isn't in mood, isn't affectionate, he started taking thc everyday. His demeanor has changed he's easily agitated, moody and reactive. He basically works from home then just wants to watch tv all night. Curious what others think, am I reading too much into all his odd comments?