41M recently matched on an app with 40F. We've been chatting sporadically for 4 days. The pattern goes: I send her a few questions based on her profile or previous comments. Later she answers my questions with a few sentence each. Very friendly and nice sounding.

And that's it.

She has never asked me a question once. She has never elaborated or told a story or tried to keep the conversation moving in any way. She just gives me a nice, friendly 2-3 sentence answer for all my questions, and that's it. And then I reply, comment, send another question or two over, and she just replies in the same way – 2 sentences to answer my question, and that's all.

This is less than ideal. She has shown no curiosity about me or motivation to keep a conversation going. Ordinarily, I'd say she wasn't interested and is just being polite, if it wasn't for the fact that she does keep replying, and all her replies sound warm and friendly.

How do I read this?


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