My husband and I have been married for 4 years(together for 8). Our relationship has taken a dip since the minute we got married. The main issue being intimacy. His side of the story is that I show no affection and don’t act like I’m into him. My side is that because his lack of affection and lack of attention I get from him makes me not even want to be intimate. We have two young children and I’m the main care taker. I do everything for them when it comes to school, doctors appointments, calling off work, cooking, cleaning, bathing. I work part time and am a full time nursing student on top of it. He works 5-6 days a week 12 hour days so I know he’s tired. But these are his kids too, I’m tired all the time and I still do my part. He does not understand that simply asking how my day is and giving me a hug or a kiss makes a big difference. Instead he barely says anything to me when he comes home, has an attitude and a problem with everything I do. Then blames me that I ruined the mood and he doesn’t even want to be intimate anymore. Seems like such narcissistic behaviors and honestly I’m over it. Anyone else deal with this? What do you do?