My husband and i had an arranged marriage. We fall in love with eachother. He respects me, does a lot of things for me. I love him , but maybe too much.
I wait that he comes from work as if i havent seen him in 3 years, i want to have him 24/7 around of me, i want to spoil him and always admire about how handsome he is. In few words, im too much attached to him.
I am a person whose love language is physical contact but my husband hates it. Sometimes if i hug him from the side he moves away and says not to do that so i respect that and move away, but every time it makes me feel so unwanted. I know that thats how he feels and maybe he cant change that, but for me physical contact is a need.
I feel like i need to stop being so mentally and physically attached to him, or i will loose myself. Whenever he says no i feel depressed for the rest of the day, and i think that it is not right ruining my days like this over little things.
I need help because i have no idea of how to get myself a little away from him and give him his personal space.
English is not my first language, so sorry if sth wasnt written right.
Please dont say bad things. I just need good advices . Thnx.