So sad people are going about relationships like they would be grocery shopping and expecting to find the product that perfectly satisfies the individual needs. They forget that at the other end is a human with needs and expectations too. If they find something is not 100% according to the specs they start to disengage and nag.
The key is to collaborate to find the connection and not trying to tie all loose ends. And appreciate and respect the differences. Sometimes you can grow by learning from others.
I meet a lot of men online who are not looking for commitment. They have their life so compartmentalized that they entertain completely different friends groups to fulfill certain needs. They sometimes aren't even connected to each other. And the woman becomes a certain role to fulfill and will be excluded from all the other compartments.
Relationship afasik works by inviting people into your life and being able to make connections with their.
I see women who have a checklist looking for maximum outcomes already before they meet in person. Men who want to f*** but are not interested in the person at all.