Hi all,
This is my throwaway account because I’m having big feelings and just need to vent to strangers on the internet.
I’ve not had sex in almost 3 years. 3 YEARS. Married, two children. This didn’t happen after our kids, it was also an issue before, but now it seems it’s taken on a whole new level.
I’m a 32, f. High sex drive, like HIGH. My husband has some medical issues that inhibits him from having physical intercourse. Both mental and physical. He doesn’t help himself and just seems to have no sex drive whatsoever. When we first met he was a virgin and seemed to want to a whole lot really fast, then that was it. He could fix the physical issues if he takes care of himself, and honestly probably the mental issues too. He just seems to be “meh” about it.
Now I’m saying that, it’s not just the physical sex we’re not having. It’s the touching, kissing, cuddling, etc. nothing. Now I used to initiate all these things. I absolutely used to offer to do lots of things to him sexually. He always had an excuse about the medical things with his penis. I used to initiate the hugs, the kisses, I used to ask for sexual favours for myself. I think I probably just got tired of getting shut down or tired of being the one to initiate it all the time?
I’m starting to miss it intensely. I just want to be in someone’s arms and for someone to just dominate the fuck out of me. So I just want some opinions. Like what the fuck do I do, lol. I need to get laid like yesterday. I masturbate like a rabbit on crack. I’m ovulating right now so it’s extra intense. We have like a whole family though and I don’t want to mess up anything. I do want him and I want him to want me. He says he wasn’t “brought up that way”. He came from a very unloving family, but fuck man he’s 35 now lol. Just kiss and hug your wife 😂.
Anyway, this was terribly, terribly written, if you got this far, congratulations!