HELP. I meet great, nice people who are silly. I can't. It gives me the ick so fast. I'm talking Pinky and the Brain type of silly. Impressions of celebrities kind of silly. Using words like "weenie" and "buttocks." Inexperience, lack of confidence, I don't know, but it viscerally registers to me more than the actual red flags I usually let fly by. I married a guy like this and his confidence never grew and I was never happy. And now it's like it's all I can find: the emotionally constipated man or the silly one who makes me feel like I'm dating a kid.
Am I broken? Or are these icks others have?