Sex has always been an issue for me and my partner, every time is time to go to town. There’s no moaning, grunting anything, when I want to change positions it’s an issue which leads us to stopping sex or having a bland session.
During our sessions she’s always ask “are you gonna nut yet?” “Are you done?” And she always ask to receive oral after for her satisfaction. Then it’s over. No intimacy or anything. We rarely have sex nowadays it always leads to an argument. It’s gotten to a point now where I’m resisting any sexual activity. I’ve wanted to spice it up in the bed with toys and another essentials but she says we don’t need it and I’m enough. Not sure how to handle this situation we’ve met in high school and have been in relationship for a few years. Sex always has been an issue.
Any advice for how to go about dealing with this and could this be a flag of sexual incompatibility. As far as the rest of the relationship we are very bonded and love each other a lot.