Or how to guide my SO during oral? His tongue sometimes flicks too hard or it just doesn’t feel comfortable. I’m unsure how to explain it, it just feels uncomfortable and too wet or the flicks are too hard or no feeling at all. I usually am able to rub myself and get off but I don’t know why oral with SO doesn’t do much, in need of advice and help! I don’t think I’ve ever O-ed during sex or when he gives me oral. Someone please explain the feeling ??