I am a woman in my mid 20s who has issues with sex and intimacy. I have been working hard on my image and my health and though I am not near my goal; I am proud of the changes in my body. I don’t have anyone to share it with right now; so for fun I made an anonymous instagram just showing off some photos. No nudity or anything, just slightly suggestive. I never tried to advertise, I never wanted to make money off of it, I just wanted to have a platform where I could post something as just someone, and feel sexy. It has a ridiculously small amount of followers, but I never cared about that in the first place. My problem is, an old fling of mine followed that account recently. I have NO idea how he found it, no one in my life has any connection to it. But he sent a message request with my name and a crying emoji. I’m honestly really upset about this, it feels like I have to delete the account. My question is, what should I do in this situation? I’m really not doing anything wrong. But blocking him feels like I’m saying I am. And denying who I am feels useless, I have tattoos that I’m sure he recognized. But being open and honest, I’m not sure if he’ll tell other people. So what would you do?