TL:DR
Me and my ex are in limbo but I think she’s using me for whatever emotional fix, hard to set boundaries and need advice
My ex Gf broke up with me over arguments about 2 weeks ago. We were together 2.5 years and lived together the whole relationship. It was toxic and we had a trauma bond. I really wanted to work on things but she doesn’t think I’ll change and she doesn’t want to be back together. She claims she lost feelings. She couch sleeps at her friends now and we don’t text at all. However she started coming over and sleeping on/in my bed using my blanket. I stay with my parents so they let her in. She used to leave after I woke her up but she started saying we had the best bond ever so she still wants to cuddle, and go on dates sometimes and travel with me when I travel out of states. I recently came back from Vegas and she was home when I arrived and said she was waiting for me and gave me a real long hug. Even was intimate like holding my hand and insinuating her pregnancy by saying things like our baby would look so cute and that she’s currently ovulating. She would ask to go to the store with me and when I would say no she would give an irritated response like she wants me to chase her. This behavior used to give me false hope but I moved on once I realized this is relationship limbo and how emotionally immature this actually is. She told me she’s over me. I must be her emotional fix if she doesn’t want to date me again. I want to end this but it’s hard to set boundaries when she always try’s to cross them, or can easily come over due to my parents liking her. She tried to cuddle with me 2 nights ago but I told her no. She left and called me hours later saying I was being rude. And even asked to hangout again LOL