Let's get down to it. I'm 28F, a virgin, with a big imagination and my sexual fantasies have really grown over the years. 😳
A few years ago, I found I was really into Daddy dom stuff. No age aggression or anything like that, but basically just a Soft Dom who calls themselves Daddy and mixes that language into sex sometimes. Cool. Also not 24/7, I think I'd enjoy Daddy talk 50% of the time.
Around that time, I suddenly had a fantasy of basically flipping that around and having my partner call me "mama." Not anything inc*stous or weird, just enough to make it a domination thing and he has to earn eating out my pussy or other sexual acts and he says "mama" occassionally.
Well, after watching quite a bit of solo male masturbation porn, now I really like the idea of a having a certain agreement with my husband of sorts. Anytime I call randomly he has to send me a jerk off video with lots of moaning and spontaneity. Especially if I'm out of town or something and he has to keep his balls drained for me, stuff like that. I like the idea of switching dominance during sex or every time we have sex – making him earn me, him being dominant and lightly aggressive with me + me eagerly submitting, me standing across the room in something super slutty dancing while he jerks off, letting him giving me anally, LOTS of dirty talk thrown in.
Yet, I don't like femboys, I'm very monogamous, I'm not into S&M and I'm wondering how normal this all is.
I'm just wondering what this categorizes me as and how to communicate all this to someone once I finally do start having sex 🙈