I was texting with a guy in his 40s on Bumble. I don’t know if you know the type, but he makes noting jokes all the time and can’t seem to have a normal conversation. Anyway he asked me on a date over some wine. I told him I don’t drink alcohol and he then wrote ”okey then, let’s meet innocently over a cup of coffee”. I asked him what he meant with innocently and he said that ”with innocently I mean you don’t have to feel any pressure, if you feel any”.
It feels like he means pressure when it comes to sexual expectations. Isn’t it creepy to say something like that?