Love marriage in 2024,seemed perfect as we dated for close to a year. Spent lot of time together and really gelled together. Which is why got courage to get married as this was second marriage. I had wasted a big chunk of my life in my first marriage which was exploitative , manipulative and the marriage was arranged wherein the people got into my life looking at me being pretty well off ( both career wise and family wise ) . It ended in divorce with me being diagnosed with 2 life threatening diseases due to chronic stress.
After going through so much when my current wife came into my life it seemed that this was all I had wanted in my life, after a very good courtship period we finally tied the knot in 2024.
However she is a very different person now – earlier she used to be nice to my parents whereas now she has stopped talking with them , whereas her parents are living with us ( and they don’t contribute financially), she hardly pays for anything despite running business, she has hardly any time for me as her business is running into losses and she has started another business taking money from me – point is – in order to support her I am not being able to do anything that I wanted – earlier I used to travel every month , that has stopped , earlier I used to strictly sleep at 11 which is necessary for my health conditions, that has also changed , I had shifted to a place near her business so that she doesn’t need to travel , now I am travelling 3+ hours daily, she doesn’t have energy to cook , but becomes active during her work hours , non existing sex life, financially she has taken help from me multiple times but refuses to accept so and tries to demean it , tldr ; she showed herself to be someone else and now her true self is being revealed and I am not finding any value in this relationship as critical things such as health , finance , taking care of parents everything has taken a severe toll – I am 39 and I can’t see days , months , years being wasted like this , I have already wasted a good chunk of my late 20s and early 30s for marriage and don’t want a repeat of it, what makes the situation even worse is despite me helping her in all possible ways , she is always aggressive and dominating.
Should I move out , or what should be the right way to go about this ?