What really keeps a relationship together. Not the fake quotes or movie crap, but the real stuff when life gets ugly. For me it’s 3 things.First is trust. Not just “are you cheating or not,” but knowing the person has your back and means what they say. Without that you’re always second guessin and it eats you alive.Second is cumminication. And not just chit chat but being able to say what’s on your mind without it turnin into a war. Most couples don’t blow up from fights, they fall apart cause nobody says what they really feel till it’s too late.Third is respect. You can still “love” someone and treat em like dirt. But if you got respect, you don’t cross lines you can’t fix later. Shows in small things, listenin, not makin em feel small, not treatin em like trash just cause you had a bad day.Love, looks, money, hobbies… all that fades or shifts. But if you don’t got these 3, it won’t last. If you do, you can handle pretty much anythin.