My husband(37m) and I(38f) have been together for 18 years. I consider myself to be a well rounded person/partner. I take care of the home & kids as well as provide excitement in the home/bedroom. Tonight in a group setting my husband said he sees us being swingers in 10 years because he doesn’t have experience outside of me. My response was I appreciate the honesty because it allows me to choose my investment moving forward. To be frank… why in the fuck would I contribute and build this home if that’s a possibility? It’s def not something I want. There is no difference to me between today and 10 years. He said I’m sorry I’m drunk, I regret saying that. I have always had the insecurities that stem from his lack of independence. He has always reassured me that’s not how he felt. Am I overreacting to his words tonight?