(This post is for the women in here) Reproductive abuse is real, watch the SVU with john stamos thats basically this man's inspo. Met him in New Orleans but he's now a Texas resident.
He is on all types of social/dating apps. I met him on a "vanilla" site but have since found out hes on FB dating, Hinge, Tinder, FetLife but Seeking seems to be his favorite. I've spoken to female victims that were aged 17-40, some he started long term relationships with, some he solicited for sex work all with the intention of impregnating them, all simultaneously juggling these connections. He will try every avenue to impregnate. Manipulation, lies of a future family, saying IUDs hurt him/cause cancer, allergic to condoms, removing condoms during sex, sex while a woman is asleep, orgasming without acknowledging and then seemingly "pulling out" later, and even telling some women that he was sterile.
I got connected to the other moms through social media and private groups just sharing our stories, like this post. Over 20 other women have confirmed he talked about or tried to get them pregnant while they dated. Each of the women believed he was not a father and did not know of any children nor of any other woman. Some of these women he dated long term, lived with him, met family and friends. 10 of these women got pregnant, of them 6 birthed his child, the oldest child being almost 15.
Once the women got pregnant he would go no contact. If any of us ever reached out to his family we would be ignored or blocked. He has never met any of children nor has any of his family. He would begin making threats to the women if they dared speak about him, he would say that he'd call the police if they contacted his family/friends, that he had lawyers on a $50k retainer. (He has actually made good on one of those threats and has filed to sue some of the mothers for speaking about him and for reaching out to his family, their child's paternal family)
One mother was undeterred and continued the child support case. The first test came back negative, a test in which HE chose the lab and sent in the swab to the court affiliated DDC lab. The man refused to appear in person stating he was in Bahrain. The mother went on ancestry and proved relation to her child and demanded the New Orleans court to do it the right way through court appointed locations.
After 2 years of the case being open the man was finally forced to appear in person where they surprised him with a DNA test in open court, he tried to run. It came back positive. He denied it's legitimacy. The state then flew in the VP of DDC to confirm its legitimacy. However the judge allowed the man to request a third test! Which he never completed. He transferred his properties and business to his father, continuing to lie about being in Bahrain, even altering notarized documents proving he was in the US. He was held in contempt for never supplying his income or passport or proof of work overseas. He then stated he was fired from his own business (in which he was the only employee!) and stated on the stand that he was collecting unemployment from the state of Texas, and the four luxury vehicles including a cybertruck, were the company's vehicles.
4 years from the beginning of the case the judge finally named him the father and set the monthly amount at $2k with a total arrears of $90k+. He was held in contempt and ordered to pay $10k or face 30 days in jail. He has now paid but weeks after the due date and may have a warrant out for his arrest because of it. Meanwhile he has multiple open child support cases in Dallas and who knows where else. He has dated women in Toronto, Seattle, Boston, Pittsburgh, Miami, Orlando, West Virginia, Los Angeles, Louisiana, Texas, and more. He travels frequently, internationally as well and will set his dating parameters to nationwide.
I know this doesnt make any sense, theres no logic to what hes doing and we were all shocked and confused as anyone reading it. but abuse doesn't make sense, he wants to feel power over these women and children's lives. So in case this is the first you ever hearing about reproductive abuse, look into it. He is not the only man who is using his fertility as a weapon to distort & transform women's bodies and lives.