I work at a social services agency and I have a meeting on Fridays with my supervisor and other colleagues that are all women (I'm the only guy). The meeting is supposed to be "discuss any concerns" but we spend 15 mins doing that and the the rest of the meeting is 45 mins what I call "women talk" with about 9 other women on a virtual meeting. Our supervisor has a "topic of the week" which I'm not exaggerating is "what is your fav ice cream, dinosaur, board game, color, candy" and it changes each week. She spends about 40 mins going through everyone's answers and then the last 15 mins, sometimes more, it's just women gossip about what shows they have watching or what their kids are doing over the week. The last meeting turned into this girl posting a "what dress should I wear" poll, no lie. I work in criminal justice and I have nothing to offer to these meetings but I'm supposed to be a part of them for some reason because case management and the 2 criminal justice workers (myself and another person) are lumped into this meeting. It's also "cameras on" kind of meeting. I feel like I'm just a part of a women's talk group and I don't know who to talk to about not being a part of it. I also think my supervisor might be autistic, so I don't really want to bring it up to her or hurt her feelings.