So, i don't know what happened but suddenly one day my friend whom I have been friends with for 3 years started to act like I was something disgusting.

I haven't been talking to her since this incident, cuz I was hurt by the way, she changed her seats because i sat next to her. There was respectable distance between us, but as soon as I sat, she stood up and went somewhere else. I was shocked and asked if it was because of me she changed and to my horror, it was. I apologised, dunno why tho. We were close friends, never had any fights like this ever.

I believe i may have done something wrong. The possibilities are there,
1. I snapped my fingers to call her instead of her name. A stupid reason to get mad at but whatever floats her boat.
2. I am a lesbian and maybe that's what ticked her off? (Tho i never told anyone, just that I am bi)
3. Someone ratted me out to her. The most probable one. I kind of called her a copycat because she joined every fandom i joined a few years ago and i am guilty of gatekeeping so.. maybe.
4.I am close friends with her nemesis. Also probable, but she wasn't this bitter ever before.

I have a bad habit of not sitting still until i get my answers. And because I don't why she did that, i asked my friends, they told me "just move on". It's not easy. For them, maybe it is. Not for me. Especially the way she said that she moved because of me, the expression was one of disgust as if I am filth.
Should i apologise and try to know why she did all that or just let it go like everyone told me to?

TL;DR
My friend stood up and looked at me with a disgusted expression just because i sat next to her for reasons unknown. I am an overthinker, and feel conflicted whether to apologise or ask why she did that.

(I kinda feel cringed out by myself for asking advice on teenage drama ngl)


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