Well title pretty much says it all. My husband 25m and I 23f have been together for a long time and I can’t remember a time he’s consistently made me cum. There are one offs here and there but it’s like once every 10-15 times. He doesn’t touch me before or during. I’ve turned into a starfish bc I’m just not into it and I’m starting to feel used. I hate asking to get off because I shouldn’t have to and it makes me feel bad like I’m going to inconvenience him. Idk he’s also super vanilla and I’ve told him a couple of times I wish he would be a little bit more rough or dominant but he says he just isn’t like that. So I just do it and get it over with and I hate it. Makes feel super insecure. 😕 will probably delete after a while.
Edit: I make sure if we do anything sexual I’m clean and smelling good. Most of the time I will tell him no until I’ve had a shower