I’m 33 years old and we have 3 kids. I make 7 figures and my wife has access to spend whatever she wants from our liquid assets, I am a great dad and spend all my free time with my family. I have no friends or hobbies, don’t even watch sports on TV after having season tickets to multiple teams before kids. I cook dinner half the week, always take my wife’s car for gas late at night, and do my fair share around the house. In addition my wife has full time help while I am at work and I am home most days by 330 and then finish working at night when everyone is asleep. We also live down the street from my retired in laws who help almost daily with the kids. My wife had cancer before we were married and I was her primary care taker and did everything I could for her through the year of treatments and surgeries and we were told there was a good chance we could not have kids after if my wife survived. So given our history we should be a very happy family as we have 3 amazing kids and have traveled the world with them and on paper have a great life
She has been upset with me it seems ever since we have had kids that I never do enough to help her and make her life easier. I don’t know what else to do now and recently she has been telling me that she hates me. I give her compliments all the time, and try to be supportive but I never get anything positive from her in return. It amazes me that we even have kids for how much disgust she has for me.
I’ve been asking her to go to therapy with me but she refuses
What do I do so my wife doesn’t hate me?