So me and my current friend used to work in a same company. And most of the times when we used to go out, i used to always pay for her coz i had money and most of the times she didnt and i always stepped up and paid and that was that. There was no negativity in this.
But few months before i left my current job and now im struggling with money. And my friend also knows that. So, now when we go out we split the bill. But i dont know im starting to not like her anymore coz of this resentment i guess where i was there for her when she didnt have money and always bought her stuff. But now that im struggling with money, she not even for once steps up to pay for me. Obviously if the amount is huge, definitely i will pay my share. But even for small amount, she doesnt offer to payup. And it makes me want to slap her.
How do i get out of this feeling and save our friendship.
For context she is a good person but i feel she is kind of selfish when it comes to like money and always complains about not having money (Now even im doing this😅). But im starting to get this feeling that she uses people for money and has this entitlement attitude where she expects me to do stuff for her all the time but when its her time to buy me treat or doing something for me, she complains.
Uggh i hate when friendships turn like this.