So I (single) have been chatting with a married woman I met at my gym. Nothing flirty or anything, just casual conversation and sometimes texting. She mentioned she only has a single-club membership, while mine lets me go to multiple locations and bring a guest. I offered to take her along, and she said yes.
A buddy of mine told me if he were her husband, he wouldn’t be cool with it. That kind of stuck with me, because I don’t want to cross any lines or cause issues in her marriage.
I actually get 2 guest passes, not just one. Would it make sense to invite her to bring her husband next time? Part of me feels like that’s the respectful thing to do, but I don’t know if it would come off weird, like I’m assuming he’d want to tag along or that she shouldn’t hang out solo.
What’s the best move here? Should I just leave it alone, or should I specifically suggest she bring her husband?