This might be a very subjective problem, something that depends on the person I’m talking to, but I need some advice.
I’ve just gotten into my first relationship, and it’s going great. Still, I have a huge fear that this might become a problem in the future. I’m a pretty introverted, overthinking person by nature (surprising, I know), and I’ve been “isolated” most of my life. Because of that, conversations aren’t my strong suit, especially since I have less life experience to share than others.
My life is pretty uneventful outside of my personal issues, hobbies, and work. For context, I see my girlfriend about once a week, rarely twice. To me, that feels ideal since it gives me time to come up with something to talk about. But as time goes on, I feel like I’m running out of things to say, especially with school starting soon when I’ll see her every day. One of my biggest fears is that she’ll realize how “stale” I am and eventually get bored of me.
I know this might sound like a problem tied to our shared interests, but I’d love some general advice, not just for my relationship but for my life overall. Thank you.