Hi there! I am currently coming to an end on a 33 day trip visiting family in Europe. About a week before I left, I started seeing someone. I am a 26M, she is 31F. We had known each other for a couple of months and started getting intimate before I left. She came over for dinner one evening. We had a really fun evening the last night before I left where we went out, she slept over, and spent the day with me. She seemed really excited for me to come back and started thinking about stuff we can do when I get back. I’m excited about it too! I also said I wanted to continue while I’m here through text and a couple of phone calls which she was all up for. Now the where I get confused is that we never once talked on the phone. She would say “call me when you’re free” and I would she wouldn’t answer or she said she never got anything. This happened maybe 3 times until I stopped trying. I would send photos/text and she said she wouldn’t always get them even though just about everyone else in my life does. The texting is also inconsistent where we’ll have a good texting session and others she won’t reply for hours. She also mentioned that she has ADHD so maybe that’s also a factor. Obviously the time difference is a big factor. Most of my friends say that the texting is not a good indicator and just wait to see what happens when I get back. Curious about others input!


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